Losing Friends Stinks

            During middle and high school I lost some friends and I was a good friend with this person; I was a friend with this person since 8^th grade and there was some reason why I lost this friend because one of my other friend started being mean to her and started problems with her which I didn’t that at all. After all that stuff happened she decided to leave the group because of one person. After she left the group I was sad that our group was getting smaller but then when I made mire friends the group was getting big.

            Losing friends can be a problem because I was close with this friend and we would talk to each other in class. I hate losing friends and it is a terrible feeling. There was a friend that just wanted to leave because she wanted too and she found better friends with be with. When you lose friends you always find new friends to be with.

            In high school people meet and talk to new people everyday and when you enter college you might be still friends with people you were friends with when you were in high school. You may not be with those friends you made in high school it just depends on your friendships.

            After high school was over I was so happy to be friends with the same people when entering college. 

High School Experience

          When I started high school I was a still best friend with the friends that I made in middle school. Being high school was so different from middle because in high school people were more mature and nicer, didn’t start problems with people. People would leave people along and just did their own things. I liked high school more than middle school and my best friends and I would still have lunch together and would hang out when we were in high school. Our friendship didn’t go away when we entered high school, which was a good thing because I didn’t want to lost friends that I made in middle school.      

            One day, I was having lunch with friends and one of my friends brought her friend to have lunch with us and we all introduced ourselves to her and she introduced herself to us. Her name was Rachel, one of my friends had a class with Rachel and Rachel and her were good friends and they were lab partners for chemistry. When I meet Rachel she was a nice person and then we found out that Rachel and I had gym together.

We got to know each other in gym class then become friends and we would talk to each other and had fun in gym.

            I met another person that is friends with Katie and her name is Paige. Paige would sit with us before class started in the mornings and I was talking to her to get to know her. When Paige joined the group we were becoming closer and good friends and I would talk to her in between classes and at lunch.

            Some of us went to homecoming and prom, football games, and other events when we were in high school together. I was so glad that I got to spend my high school years with my best friends.

Drama In Middle School

Throughout middle school, I meet a lot of people that are my friends now and I have been friends with them for along time. I made more friends but they were my friends for a short time only because I didn’t like how they were acting and they would always start drama. I hate drama and I think the only reason why people start drama because it makes me feel better about them and they do it just to get it out of their mind and have to cause problems.

            Drama in middle school was a big one because you would hear drama every single day and drama causes so many problems especially when girls were the ones starting them. I chose to be friends with people that do not causes problems and they like to go with the flow with whatever makes them happy. People in middle school were so different and some people didn’t have any problems making friends.

            I am a type of person that don’t like to be around people that are bad and do stupid stuff and don’t care about anything but themselves. Lots of people in middle school were just themselves and did whatever they wanted to do and dotn’t care about others. After I ended middle school I told myself that I am glad that I found great friends because our friendship is still going strong since middle.

I was so glad i was done with middle school because I didn't like how middle school was and when i was starting i loved high school more than middle school.

New School Experience

New School Experience 

           I went to a new school when I was in 7^th grade and I didn’t know anyone at my new school and didn’t know where my classes were. Before school started there was someone that helped me get around and showed me where my classes were. After the person showed me around I went to my classes and there was girl named Katie that I meet and we both introduced each other to get to know each other.

            After class, we had a break in between classes and we talked more and I realized when talking to her that she is friendly, nice, and everyday and I had one more class to go to before it was lunchtime. Every class I went to I meet new people and there was a lot of people that helped me get around when I got lost in the school or going to my classes.

            When it was lunchtime I would go sit by Katie and have lunch with her and while we were having lunch there was people that were sitting with us at the table. We all introduced each other and then starting conversations about funny stuff. Having lunch with whole much of new people was fun because I like meeting new people and it a good change for me to find new friends. 

            When being a new student in a new school I found out that there are people out there that care and help other people out when they are lost. I thought it was easy to find new friends to be with. I found a lot of people to have lunch with when being a new student at a new school. Katie was one of my best friends that i meet when i went to the new school and I meet new friends also and I will talk about the other friends later throughout the blog. I am so glad that all the people I meet I have become closer to them since the day I met them.

The reason I chose this topic

         The reason I chose friendships topic because friendships is important to have in life and I made so many friendships throughout my life. Some were good and some were bad but it is your own choice how you want your friendships to be. Friendships can mean a lot to people especially if it someone or a group of friends that you have been close with for a while. I have a lot of friends that I have been friends with since high school and I still talk to them and see them. Friendships are among the most complex but meaningful relationships in out lives. Some people have a hard time making friends when they don’t fit in a group and most people want to be in a group where they fit in.

            Friendships can last for a while if you have been friends with that person and there were times where I made friends with people that I didn’t expect to be friends with. Friendships can be a lot of work when trying to make friends. The friends I have been with for a while means a lot to me and it's important to be friends with people that are there for you when you need someone to talk to and someone that can help you with your own problem, someone that is there by your side all the time.

       Some friendships may not last for along time because something could go wrong when making friends. There is different friendships out there that people need to know about when choosing friendships. I learned when making friends you have to pick wisely because if you don’t then stuff is going to happen like dealing with people that you don’t want to deal with in the first place.
     I want people to know that friendships can cause a lot of problems when having to chose your friends and I went though a lot when finding friends because I found out some not very good things about this person and when I was friends with her she told me a lot of stuff that I didn’t know before I was friends with her. I told her that I couldn’t be a friend with you because I didn’t want it to get worst like it was before.